The key to your child happy

They are annoyed when the child is in a bad mood?
Buy your children's toys to keep them just sad?

Many times we've annoyed when our child is in a bad mood. Maybe because we feel responsible for our child to the negative mood or bad mood we take our child as a crime.

Children are subject to bad moods, just like adults. You do not have the verbal skills to manage their intellectual or sad or angry feelings. InsteadThinking things through or talk about it rationally, the pouting, slamming doors, or fight with the brother or sister.

Children's problems seem small and silly to us. E 'surprised and annoyed that we have a dispute with a friend, watch a brother get a new toy or lose a basketball game, such a reaction can cause a negative. It helps if you consider that their problems are real, like ours, we think. Imagine if you lost a dear and close friend, your boss orYour colleague has given a new computer and you have lost your Blackberry or change in business more profitable.

We must learn to respect and understand the children when they are excited. Do not say you are not in a bad mood or charged with a Sour Puss. We do not need them, with gifts and indulge you feel better. Forcing a child to be happy, sad when she does her emotions in anxiety. You might think: "If the mother does not want me to be sad, thensomething wrong with me when I feel sad, "instead of acknowledging their feelings as normal.

The children cheer. Do you need a listening ear and someone who does not judge the pain experience. You may drag their funk with a little 'acceptance, empathy and respect.

Rather than complain:

"Why are you so grumpy? It always starts with Matt and then make peace with him the next day!"

Accept and empathy:

"SoundsHe had a difficult time with Matt. Fighting with friends can be stressful. "

Instead of encouragement or acquiescence:

"Come on, is not that bad a smile on your face it will. Your birthday will be here before you know it. You know what, tomorrow we will go shop for it and you purchase a toy!

Respect and empathy:

"I see your excited. It is not easy to watch someone else have a gift."

Instead they slid to Talk:

"Tell mewhat is wrong, how can I help you if you do not tell me what has taken false. "

Empathy and respect for their emotional space:

"It seems that the basketball game really came down. Sometimes it feels good to talk and sometimes you need to talk to get to a point before you."

We can provide our children with a bad mood. We need not fear to his state of mind and encourage us to "fix" can fool. Through empathy, we give our children the space andSupport they need to manage their feelings.